Last weekend my boys dapat gadjet baru dari Mama sebab berjaya habiskan Buka Baca No 6. Sebab buku ni agak mencabar kat dorang sebagai galakkan Mama present this thing. They really want to be a saintis (Amin..). So at least benda camni bole la bagi dorang aspiration sikit...heheh. They were so overjoy bila buka jer wrapping. And start doing their eksperimen berdua. Little girl bole tolong pegang bekas2 eksperimen je la sebab abang2 tengah sibuk cipta ubat baru...hehehe
Alhamdulillah twin dah bole la baca sikit2. Bila kita ajar dorang ni kena banyak sabar & tak bole lama2. Kalau dorang cam susah nak baca atau eja je looked deep into their eyes, kita boleh nampak bertapa susahnya bagi dia. Mula2 tu Mama terlupa dan a bit stress sikit ajar twin tapi bila dah baca banyak buku parenting then I realized I have to put myself into their shoes. Baca sangat mudah bagi kita tapi satu tekanan bagi dorang.
Pergi kelas Music pun macam tu. They enjoy it very much tapi bila diperkenal keynote baru dengan kena guna dua tiga jari sekali dan follow melodi, sebenarnya sangat susah. Tapi from they eyes and frowning faces I can see they tried really hard. What I can do is encourage them with rubbing their shoulders & back and said aspiring words. Itulah bagusnya program Yamaha Junior Music Class. Ibubapa kena datang sekali belajar dengan anak2 dan dari situ ibubapa dapat tengok sendiri belajar music tak mudah. Tapi bila dah pandai should be ok. If u expect too high from them it really hurts them actually. So just encourage them and said they can do it with lots of practise.
Being a stay at home mom I able to spend some time reading about lots of thing. Previously I have been so busy with office works & house matters beside attending my children & husband. I have always love to read but been so busy I dont get the chance. Now with the full support from husband, I been supplied lots of good books (this makes me love him evenmore! heheh). At the moment I love reading parenting books. I want to have a better view in raising children and learning from expert. From reading I have realized my mistakes and try to be a better person the next day. At some situation when I cant control my anger with children madness I will just grab a parenting book, nursing my lil girl and read! Then I will get to my senses and forgive the boys. Eventually with physiology treatment, actually our children do feels guilty but they dont know how to express it. What u can do is PRAY to Allah for patience,talk to children in a good tone and firm & take a deep breath. But I do get mad certain times but manageable...heheh
So this is my new gadget. A mini reading light. It really useful especially night time when I need to nurse my baby girl and I can read at the same time. Therefore I wont disturb her. Happy Thursday people!..